For 20 years, I’ve been giving people completely Standard American English accents in a relatively short time. (Usually less than 10 sessions.) For some reason, I’m still reading articles claiming that you can’t get rid of your accent unless you’re very young.
FYI, my oldest client was 82! He got rid of all traces of his accent! You merely have to want it enough!
Do you want to know how to get rid of your accent? It’s easy. Read on or scroll straight to the last paragraph entitled How to Get Rid of Your Accent if you don’t want to know the why.
Why should you get rid of your accent?
If you’re on the path to becoming an A-list actor, you have to go all the way to a general American accent.
But if you’re trying to get ahead in your career and have incredible personal and professional relationships, then you may not need to go all the way, but you do need to be crystal clear.
Everyone needs to work on their communication skills, even in their native language. No one was born as a perfect communicator. All the exceptional communicators you know have worked on it!
You Can Get Rid of Your Accent
Those articles are misinforming you! You can easily get rid of your accent. This article talks about how it’s difficult for your brain to hear sounds different from those of your native language. That’s the correct part. As babies, we’re auditorily bombarded with the sounds of our native language.
But the flaws in the reasoning are two-fold.
- An accent is much more than just the sounds. The sounds play a minimal role in an accent.
- Training you to hear your mistakes and the correct production is super easy. Necessary, yet easy.
This article says it’s science that you can’t change your accent! That’s hilarious! Not to mention lazy. (Ah, well, I can’t get rid of my accent, so I may as well not try.)
It’s science that you CAN change your accent 🙂 They say, “Your accent is here to stay” (not accurate) and, like the previous article, makes some truisms about accents. The truisms are that one substitutes the sounds of their native languages for the sounds of the 2nd language. Yes, that’s true.
The second truism is that one loses the ability to hear sounds. Both true. Unfortunately, not addressing the fact that human ears are easily trained. It’s also true that most people can’t do it on their own. The article is correct in that if we are left to our own devices, our accents won’t go away.
They need the help of a speaker coach to help them hear what they’re doing wrong, resulting in your ability to change your accent
You can easily change your accent.
The same article also addresses how some people feel that losing their accent would cause them to lose their identity. How you speak is absolutely not your identity! Your identity is not superficial! Your identity is how smart you are and how funny you are. It’s what’s inside of you! That’s your identity!
What’s more likely is that your accent is disguising your identity. It’s making it harder for people to understand your message. It can hide just how funny you are.
It can also hide how smart you are. To get ahead in this world, you need people to see how intelligent you are. Getting rid of your accent makes that happen 🙂
When you speak your native language, speak it to a fare-thee-well. When you communicate in your second & third languages, speak them to a fare-thee-well also. The ultimate trick? Just train your ear. Here are 4 more steps. You’ll want to learn how to get rid of your accent in any language you learn. That’s how you get your point across in a crystal clear & highly persuasive fashion.
Tip: Working hard on producing your sounds causes your accent to get worse. It results in your being super choppy & using a flat intonation pattern. Causing your speech to sound accented. Instead, work on gluing your words together into “breath groups” separated into pauses and using a back resonance.
How to Get Rid of Your Accent
Getting rid of your accent causes you to be taken seriously at work. It results in people clearly understanding your message & seeing the real you!
- Train your ear. Listen for the sounds in Standard American English. Also, listen for the rhythm & intonation patterns. Notice that there’s a rise and fall of intonation & it depends on the information the speaker is delivering.
- Next, you have to use lots of air for speech. Just make sure you match your voice to the air. Unless sounding like Marilyn Monroe works for you.
- Divide your message, not into sentences, but breath groups. Units of meaning that shouldn’t be separated. Then connect them. Then apply those same sound & rhythm patterns to your speech. Be sure to record yourself a lot!
- Lastly, measure your success in increments. It’s essential to self-assess. Don’t beat yourself up if it’s not perfect. Just determine what’s getting better. :